Scam category

Romance scams

Romance scams rarely begin with a direct financial ask. They start with emotional trust, move into isolation, and then introduce a money problem, investment pitch, or fabricated emergency.

24 scams trackedAll categories

Category activity

“romance scam”

↑ 168%

Watch for

  • The relationship gets emotionally intense before real-world proof exists.
  • The conversation quickly moves to private apps and away from public platforms.
  • A money request is framed as an emergency, proof of trust, or travel problem.

Common searches

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Romance and investment fraud
↑ 24%

Romance-led investment scam

A relationship begins on social or dating platforms and gradually shifts toward a fake investing opportunity with fabricated gains and escalating deposits.

What to do first

Never invest based on a romantic contact's recommendation.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

Global

Recovery fraud
↑ 41%

Romance scam recovery lawyer fraud

A fake lawyer claims they already tracked your romance scammer and only need filing fees to start the recovery.

What to do first

Treat recovery outreach after a romance scam as likely secondary fraud.

Targets

Romance scam victims

Seen in

Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Widowed doctor romance scam

A scammer claims to be a widowed doctor working abroad and builds trust before asking for emergency money.

What to do first

Reverse image search the profile and pause before sending anything.

Targets

Online daters

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Global

Romance scams
↑ 100%

Military deployment romance scam

A fake service member says military rules block access to money or leave, so the victim needs to send funds or gift cards.

What to do first

Do not send money to anyone who cannot verify identity outside the romance narrative.

Targets

Online daters

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Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Long-distance model romance scam

A glamorous long-distance profile quickly becomes emotionally intense and asks for travel or document money to finally meet.

What to do first

Verify with a live video call and outside social proof before believing the story.

Targets

Young adults

Seen in

Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Romance gift card emergency scam

A romantic contact says their phone, rent, or food emergency can be solved quickly if you send gift cards or instant payment.

What to do first

Never move money to a romantic contact you have not met and verified.

Targets

Online daters

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Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Sugar dating verification fee scam

A match promises an allowance but first requests verification payments, subscription fees, or gift cards to activate the arrangement.

What to do first

Treat any payment-before-payment arrangement as fraud.

Targets

Students

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Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Romance customs package scam

A romantic contact says they sent a valuable package, but customs, courier, or anti-terror fees must be paid before delivery.

What to do first

Do not pay package release fees for gifts from online-only partners.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Romance hospital bill scam

A romantic partner claims to be in the hospital or detained after an accident and asks for urgent treatment money.

What to do first

Verify through an independent hospital number before believing any emergency.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Romance-to-forex bait scam

A romantic contact slowly shifts the conversation into a special forex or crypto opportunity that only trusted people can access.

What to do first

Separate emotional relationships from financial decisions entirely.

Targets

Professionals

Seen in

Global

Recovery fraud
↑ 41%

Romance loss recovery lawyer scam

A victim of a romance scam is approached by a supposed lawyer or investigator who says the case can be reopened for a fee and document package.

What to do first

Treat unsolicited legal recovery outreach as suspicious and verify the firm through public registries.

Targets

Romance scam victims

Seen in

Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Oil rig romance scam

A romantic contact claims to be working offshore on an oil rig and asks for help with satellite calls, medical clearances, or emergency travel money.

What to do first

Treat offshore contractor money stories as suspicious until the identity is independently proven.

Targets

Online daters

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Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Inheritance release romance scam

A romantic contact says money is tied up in inheritance, customs, or attorney fees and asks the victim to help unlock it so they can be together.

What to do first

Do not send funds to unlock inheritance, estates, or cross-border transfers for a romantic contact.

Targets

Older adults

Seen in

Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Sugar dating verification fee scam

A match says they want to send support or begin an arrangement, but first the victim must pay a small verification or transfer-release fee.

What to do first

Do not pay any fee to receive money from a stranger who claims to be setting up support.

Targets

Students

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Global

Romance scams
↑ 41%

Celebrity romance chat scam

A victim believes they are in private contact with a celebrity or creator who eventually asks for gift cards, crypto, or help escaping a contract.

What to do first

Assume direct romantic or financial outreach from famous figures is fraudulent unless proven through official channels.

Targets

Fans

Seen in

Global

Gift card scams
↑ 23%

romance scam gift card request

An online romantic interest builds a relationship over weeks or months, then asks for gift cards as a way to help with an emergency, travel expenses, or proof of love.

What to do first

Never send gift cards or gift card photos to someone you have not met in person.

Targets

Older adults

Seen in

U.S.

Sextortion scams
↑ 8%

dating app recording threat scam

A match on a dating app lures the victim into a video call, captures intimate moments, then threatens to share the recording unless a payment is made.

What to do first

Do not pay — payment rarely stops the threats and often leads to increased demands.

Targets

Young adults

Seen in

U.S.

Military scams
↑ 100%

military romance impersonation scam

Scammers steal photos and identities of real service members to create fake dating profiles, building romantic relationships to eventually request money for supposed deployment needs.

What to do first

Reverse image search the profile photos — stolen military photos are commonly reused across scam accounts.

Targets

Military families

Seen in

U.S.

Elder financial abuse
↑ 31%

sweetheart swindle in care home

A person befriends or feigns romantic interest in an elderly care home resident to gain access to their finances, manipulating them into gifting money or changing their will.

What to do first

Alert the care facility administration and request a review of visitor logs and resident interactions.

Targets

Seniors

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

background check fee scam

A dating match asks you to pay for a background check on them as a trust-building gesture, directing you to a fake background check site that pockets the fee.

What to do first

Do not pay for background checks through links sent by dating matches.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Multi-channel phishing scams
↑ 275%

social media then DM scam

Scammers build credibility through public social media interactions before moving to private DMs where they execute phishing attacks, romance scams, or investment fraud.

What to do first

Be cautious of new contacts who engage publicly before quickly moving to private messages.

Targets

Online users

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U.S.

Online shopping scams
↑ 166%

Craigslist romance through personal ads scam

Scammers use Craigslist personal ads or community sections to initiate fake romantic relationships, eventually requesting money for emergencies, travel, or medical bills.

What to do first

Never send money to someone you have not met in person, regardless of how strong the emotional connection feels.

Targets

Older adults

Seen in

U.S.

Senior-targeted scams
↑ 42%

romance scam on senior dating site

Scammers create fake profiles on dating sites popular with seniors, build emotional relationships over weeks or months, then request money for fabricated emergencies.

What to do first

Never send money to someone you have only met online, regardless of how strong the connection feels.

Targets

Seniors

Seen in

U.S.

AI deepfake scams
↑ 19%

deepfake romantic partner scam

Scammers use AI-generated deepfake video and voice to create a convincing fake romantic partner for video calls, building emotional bonds before requesting money for fabricated emergencies.

What to do first

Insist on meeting in person or conduct a live video call where you ask them to perform spontaneous actions.

Targets

Singles

Seen in

U.S.

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