Scam category

Dating verification scams

Dating verification scams exploit the real concern people have about meeting strangers online. Fraudsters create convincing fake safety-check or age-verification sites, then pressure matches into entering personal details or credit card numbers under the guise of proving they are real. The sites look official but exist only to harvest credentials and billing data.

10 scams trackedAll categories

Category activity

“dating app scam”

↑ 198%

Watch for

  • A match insists you verify through a specific link before meeting in person.
  • The verification site asks for credit card details to confirm your identity.
  • The URL looks unofficial or uses a random domain unrelated to the dating platform.

Common searches

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OpenScam News Feed

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

age verification link scam

A dating app match sends you a link to an external site claiming you need to verify your age before meeting, which harvests your credit card information.

What to do first

Never click external links sent by matches — legitimate dating apps handle verification within the app.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

identity verification phishing scam

A dating app match asks you to verify your identity through a third-party website that collects personal information including your name, date of birth, and Social Security number.

What to do first

Never share your Social Security number or government ID through a link sent by a dating match.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

safe dating website redirect scam

A match on a dating app suggests moving the conversation to a 'safe dating website' that requires registration with a credit card, which then charges hidden fees.

What to do first

Stay on the original dating platform — there is no legitimate reason to move to an unknown external site.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

video chat verification scam

A dating match insists on verifying identity through a specific video chat app that requires payment or downloads malware onto your device.

What to do first

Suggest a mainstream video app like FaceTime, Zoom, or Google Meet — a legitimate person will agree.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

background check fee scam

A dating match asks you to pay for a background check on them as a trust-building gesture, directing you to a fake background check site that pockets the fee.

What to do first

Do not pay for background checks through links sent by dating matches.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

dating safety ID scam

A match demands you obtain a 'dating safety ID' or 'hookup clearance' through a website that charges your credit card for a worthless verification badge.

What to do first

Recognize that no legitimate dating platform requires a separate safety ID — this is always a scam.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

photo verification scam

A dating app match asks you to verify your photos through an external site that collects your selfie and personal data for identity theft or deepfake creation.

What to do first

Use only the built-in verification features of dating apps — Bumble, Tinder, and Hinge all have native photo verification.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

premium membership phishing scam

A message claiming to be from a dating app offers a free premium membership upgrade via a link that leads to a phishing page designed to steal your login credentials.

What to do first

Only upgrade your dating app membership through the official app or website — never through external links.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

date location check-in scam

A dating match asks you to check in at a specific venue through a link before your date for safety purposes, but the link is a phishing page that steals your personal data.

What to do first

Share your location with a trusted friend using built-in phone features instead of external check-in links.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

Dating verification scams
↑ 41%

STI testing verification scam

A dating match demands you get tested for STIs through a specific website before meeting, which charges for a fake test or collects your health and payment information.

What to do first

Get STI testing through your own healthcare provider or a reputable clinic — never through a link from a dating match.

Targets

Online daters

Seen in

U.S.

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