$12.5B
FTC-reported fraud losses in 2024
FTC says consumers reported losing $12.5 billion to fraud in 2024.
A message claiming to be from a dating app offers a free premium membership upgrade via a link that leads to a phishing page designed to steal your login credentials.
“dating app scam”
↑ 198%Key indicators
Estimated impact
$640
median reported loss
Scam breakdown
Scammers send phishing messages via SMS, email, or social media offering free premium features on popular dating apps.
The link leads to a convincing replica of the app's login page that captures the victim's username and password.
Stolen credentials are used to access the victim's account, harvest personal conversations, or impersonate them.
What to do first
Only upgrade your dating app membership through the official app or website — never through external links.
Related terms
Real-world example
Based on reported patterns. Names and details are illustrative.
The setup
Christopher, 35, a online daters, encountered what appeared to be a legitimate dating verification scams situation while using Website. Scammers send phishing messages via SMS, email, or social media offering free premium features on popular dating apps.
Step 2
What happened next was calculated: The link leads to a convincing replica of the app's login page that captures the victim's username and password.
Step 3
The pressure escalated quickly: Stolen credentials are used to access the victim's account, harvest personal conversations, or impersonate them.
The outcome
Christopher realized something was wrong when the offer arrives via sms or email rather than through the app's official notification system. By that point, significant damage had already been done — money sent, personal information shared, or trust exploited.
The lesson
Only upgrade your dating app membership through the official app or website — never through external links. Christopher's experience shows why the offer arrives via sms or email rather than through the app's official notification system and the link leads to a website that looks similar to but is not the official dating app site are the clearest early warning signs.
How to identify it
What to do now
What to save before reporting
How big is this problem
These numbers come from government agencies and official reports. If you have been affected, know that this is a widespread problem — not something that only happens to careless people.
$12.5B
FTC says consumers reported losing $12.5 billion to fraud in 2024.
Imposters
FTC says imposter scams remained the most commonly reported fraud category in 2024.
History and evolution
Recovery and follow-up
Why this pattern keeps working
Even when the story changes, most scams still use the same pressure pattern: urgency, authority, and a request to move money or data fast.
Phishing attacks targeting dating app users increased significantly in 2023, with Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge among the most impersonated brands.
OpenScam research
Where to report it
If you have been targeted by this scam, reporting it helps authorities track the pattern and protect others. United States has dedicated agencies that handle fraud reports.
ReportFraud.gov
Federal Trade Commission
Central U.S. consumer fraud reporting portal.
File an IC3 complaint
FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center
FBI portal for internet-enabled crime reports.
Start identity theft recovery
IdentityTheft.gov
Official U.S. identity theft recovery plan builder.
Explore further
Who is most at risk
Primary targets
Online daters, Young adults, Singles
Geographic concentration
United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Germany
Primary channel
Website — Dating verification scams
Why this group is vulnerable
Online daters are particularly vulnerable because this scam exploits trust in familiar brands, authority figures, and time-sensitive decisions. The growing number of reports suggests that awareness among this demographic remains low.
Sources and methodology
OpenScam tracks scam patterns using a combination of government consumer protection databases (FTC, IC3, Action Fraud), platform-specific fraud reports, and verified consumer complaint data. Each entry is cross-referenced against at least two independent sources before publication.
Severity ratings are based on financial impact potential, reversibility of damage, and volume of reports across multiple reporting channels. Trend velocity reflects the rate of change in report volume over the most recent 90-day window.
This page was last verified on 2026-04-04. Red flags, recovery steps, and reporting resources are reviewed quarterly against current agency guidance.
Evidence and indicators
Source notes
Frequently asked questions
Scammers send phishing messages via SMS, email, or social media offering free premium features on popular dating apps. The link leads to a convincing replica of the app's login page that captures the victim's username and password. Stolen credentials are used to access the victim's account, harvest personal conversations, or impersonate them.
The offer arrives via SMS or email rather than through the app's official notification system The link leads to a website that looks similar to but is not the official dating app site You are asked to re-enter your login credentials to claim the upgrade
Only upgrade your dating app membership through the official app or website — never through external links. Enable two-factor authentication on your dating app accounts. If you entered credentials on a suspicious site, change your password immediately and check for unauthorized account activity.
This scam primarily targets Online daters, Young adults, Singles. It is most commonly reported in United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Germany and typically appears on Website.
premium membership phishing scam is currently on the rise with growing reports. It has been reported across US, CA, UK, DE. Last updated 2026-04-04.
Related scams
A relationship begins on social or dating platforms and gradually shifts toward a fake investing opportunity with fabricated gains and escalating deposits.
Never invest based on a romantic contact's recommendation.
Online daters
Global
A scammer claims to be a widowed doctor working abroad and builds trust before asking for emergency money.
Reverse image search the profile and pause before sending anything.
Online daters
Global
A fake service member says military rules block access to money or leave, so the victim needs to send funds or gift cards.
Do not send money to anyone who cannot verify identity outside the romance narrative.
Online daters
Global
Help someone avoid this scam.
Scammers succeed because people do not talk about it. If you or someone you know has been affected, there is no shame in it — it happens to millions of people every year. Share this page with friends and family so they know what to look for.