$12.5B
FTC-reported fraud losses in 2024
FTC says consumers reported losing $12.5 billion to fraud in 2024.
A dating match insists on verifying identity through a specific video chat app that requires payment or downloads malware onto your device.
“dating app scam”
↑ 198%Key indicators
Estimated impact
$640
median reported loss
Scam breakdown
The scammer suggests a video call to build trust but insists on a specific unknown app.
The app download link installs spyware or adware on the victim's device.
Alternatively, the app requires a paid subscription, with the scammer earning affiliate commissions on signups.
What to do first
Suggest a mainstream video app like FaceTime, Zoom, or Google Meet — a legitimate person will agree.
Related terms
Real-world example
Based on reported patterns. Names and details are illustrative.
The setup
Olga, 35, a online daters, encountered what appeared to be a legitimate dating verification scams situation while using Hinge. The scammer suggests a video call to build trust but insists on a specific unknown app.
Step 2
What happened next was calculated: The app download link installs spyware or adware on the victim's device.
Step 3
The pressure escalated quickly: Alternatively, the app requires a paid subscription, with the scammer earning affiliate commissions on signups.
The outcome
Olga realized something was wrong when the match insists on using a specific video app you have never heard of instead of facetime, zoom, or google meet. By that point, significant damage had already been done — money sent, personal information shared, or trust exploited.
The lesson
Suggest a mainstream video app like FaceTime, Zoom, or Google Meet — a legitimate person will agree. Olga's experience shows why the match insists on using a specific video app you have never heard of instead of facetime, zoom, or google meet and the app requires a payment or subscription to use are the clearest early warning signs.
How to identify it
What to do now
What to save before reporting
How big is this problem
These numbers come from government agencies and official reports. If you have been affected, know that this is a widespread problem — not something that only happens to careless people.
$12.5B
FTC says consumers reported losing $12.5 billion to fraud in 2024.
Imposters
FTC says imposter scams remained the most commonly reported fraud category in 2024.
History and evolution
Recovery and follow-up
Why this pattern keeps working
Even when the story changes, most scams still use the same pressure pattern: urgency, authority, and a request to move money or data fast.
The FBI IC3 noted that romance scammers increasingly use requests for app downloads as a way to install malware or steal credentials.
FBI IC3 2024
Where to report it
If you have been targeted by this scam, reporting it helps authorities track the pattern and protect others. United States has dedicated agencies that handle fraud reports.
ReportFraud.gov
Federal Trade Commission
Central U.S. consumer fraud reporting portal.
File an IC3 complaint
FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center
FBI portal for internet-enabled crime reports.
Start identity theft recovery
IdentityTheft.gov
Official U.S. identity theft recovery plan builder.
Explore further
Who is most at risk
Primary targets
Online daters, Young adults, Dating app users
Geographic concentration
United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Germany
Primary channel
Hinge — Dating verification scams
Why this group is vulnerable
Online daters are particularly vulnerable because this scam exploits trust in familiar brands, authority figures, and time-sensitive decisions. The growing number of reports suggests that awareness among this demographic remains low.
Sources and methodology
OpenScam tracks scam patterns using a combination of government consumer protection databases (FTC, IC3, Action Fraud), platform-specific fraud reports, and verified consumer complaint data. Each entry is cross-referenced against at least two independent sources before publication.
Severity ratings are based on financial impact potential, reversibility of damage, and volume of reports across multiple reporting channels. Trend velocity reflects the rate of change in report volume over the most recent 90-day window.
This page was last verified on 2026-04-04. Red flags, recovery steps, and reporting resources are reviewed quarterly against current agency guidance.
Evidence and indicators
Source notes
Frequently asked questions
The scammer suggests a video call to build trust but insists on a specific unknown app. The app download link installs spyware or adware on the victim's device. Alternatively, the app requires a paid subscription, with the scammer earning affiliate commissions on signups.
The match insists on using a specific video app you have never heard of instead of FaceTime, Zoom, or Google Meet The app requires a payment or subscription to use The download link goes to a third-party site rather than an official app store
Suggest a mainstream video app like FaceTime, Zoom, or Google Meet — a legitimate person will agree. Never download apps from links sent by strangers; only use official app stores. If you installed an unknown app, uninstall it immediately and run a malware scan on your device.
This scam primarily targets Online daters, Young adults, Dating app users. It is most commonly reported in United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Germany and typically appears on Hinge.
video chat verification scam is currently on the rise with growing reports. It has been reported across US, CA, UK, DE. Last updated 2026-04-04.
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